Lately, I’ve been reflecting on how I process things in my mind—constantly revisiting the same thoughts just to explain them again, hoping to reach some sort of complete understanding or internal “alignment.” But what I’ve noticed is that this rarely helps. More often than not, it traps me in a loop I call “cyclic thinking”—a state where I keep rethinking the same topics just to ensure I’ve covered every angle.
At the core of this habit is the need to make everything perfect and to avoid making mistakes at all costs. But this mindset is rooted in our most basic insecurities—the fear of failure, of being wrong, of not being enough. The truth is, we don’t need to constantly chase a perfect outcome. What we really need is to show up, do our best, and accept that the outcome—whatever it may be—is just part of the process.
You don’t always need to be in perfect “alignment” with yourself to move forward. What matters is that you understand what’s happening, know what needs to be done, and keep pushing toward what you want—regardless of the fear, doubt, or discomfort along the way.
It’s okay to feel unsure. It’s okay to be afraid. These feelings are simply a byproduct of our deep desire to be perfect, loved, and respected. Acknowledge them—and then keep going.
Cheers
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